11 Things To Do When Your Finances Are A Mess

Beware of little expenses; a small leak will sink a great ship.

                                                          Benjamin Franklin

I’m going to come clean with you all here. While I have been busy taking care of my ill mother for the last year, I have let a lot of stuff go. I just didn’t have the emotional or physical energy to tackle a lot of things. Now that my mom is gone, she passed in late April of this year, I am faced with the humongous task of getting my affairs back in order. And one of the things that I did not keep an eye on was my budget. It just didn’t seem important. And while I didn’t take on any new debt or make any large purchases, I am now faced with a substantial financial mess due to the small, steady drip of unheeded expenses.

If you are like me, facing a large stack of unopened bills shoved in a drawer somewhere, I know exactly how you feel. My first instinct is to ignore it and pretend it doesn’t exist. It’s scary and over-whelming. But I know what I have to do. I have done it before. When I was a newly divorced, single mother, I had no choice but to budget. I learned a lot and I made great progress and I was able to provide for myself and my children all by myself.

The first step is to put my big girl pants on, stop ignoring the big pink debt elephant in the room and get to work. If you are ready to get off the hamster wheel and break the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck, here is my process, step by step, to get back on track when your finances are a mess.

The first step is to put your big girl pants on, stop ignoring the big pink debt elephant in the room and get to work. If you ready to get off the hamster wheel and break the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck, here is my process, step by step, to get back on track when your finances and budget are a mess.

11 Things To Do When Your Finances Are A Mess

 

1. Get a clear snapshot of your current financial situation. 

How bad is it? You need to know exactly where you stand. Only then can you make actionable goals to tackle your debt. In a previous post, How to start a budget, you will find the steps you need to take to gather all the information you need to get a clear view of your current financial situation. Don’t forget to download and print the free printable.

 

2. Assess and evaluate.

Now that you have all of your numbers in front of you, it is time to find where the biggest spending errors are and what debts need to be tackled. Categories to look at:

  • amounts spent on non-essential items like eating out, clothes, entertainment
  • list of consumer debtors
  • interest rates of all debt
  • expenses that can be reduced or eliminated like cable and cell phone
  • savings that can be made for essentials like groceries and utilities

 

3. Don’t play the blame game.

It is what it is. You are here now and you are going to do something about your situation, so there is no point in beating yourself up with the “you should have known betters.” In order to move forward and make true progress, it is important to know the why and how you created this present situation so that you can prevent a repeat but don’t let yourself get stuck in remorse. Consider those mistakes a lesson and remember them.

 

4. Set specific goals and timelines.

Poor goals:

  • I want to be debt free
  • I want to quit my job
  • I want to retire
  • I want to go on vacation

Better goals:

  • I want to pay off all my credit cards
  • I want to quit my job next year
  • I want to retire at 55
  • I want to go to Europe in the winter

Best goals:

  • I want to reduce my debt by $25,000 by December 31, 2017
  • I need to make $2,000 a month and reduce my household budget to $1,500 a month to be able to quit my job. I want to accomplish this by June 30.2017
  • I need to have a passive income of $1,000 a month and a savings account of $200,000 to be able to retire. I want to do this before my 55th birthday
  • I have researched the vacation I want and it will cost me $2,500. I need to have this amount by October 2016 to be able to pay for the trip I want to take in February 2017.

The more specific and time stamped your goals, the easier it is to plan the course to accomplish them. You must be very clear. Include dollar amounts and dates. Don’t worry about being too enthusiastic or optimistic.

5. Work backwards.

Now that you have very specific goals and deadlines, you work backwards in order to know what you need to do every day to make sure you achieve them.

For example, using the first goal from the previous step:

  • If you need to pay off $25,000 in 18 months, you need to reduce your debt by $25,000/18 monthly or $1389/month. If you currently get paid bi-weekly, that’s $641/bi-weekly. How are you going to be able to put that amount directly on your debt monthly? Again, be specific.
    • eliminate my cable bill and save $200/month
    • reduce my cell bill by $100/month
    • meal plan and reduce my grocery budget by $100/month
    • increase my income $200 by working 2 overtime shifts a month or get a second job
    • renting a bedroom in my house for $400/month
    • sell my second car for $4000 and put it towards my debt and reduce my bi-weekly amount to $538/bi-weekly

If you have completed steps one and two above, it will help you find more money saving opportunities to reach your goals. After intense examination, if you find that your goal is unachievable, extend your timeline and adjust your numbers. The worst thing you can do is put too much stress on yourself and end up giving up all together.

 

6. Become super focused.

Just like starting a new diet, money saving and reducing debt has to be in the forefront of every thought and action you have. Every minute of every day, you have to think about how you can save money. I know it sounds intense but until you form some solid money saving techniques and habits, it has to be your new obsession. Until your processes become second nature to you, it has to be your focus. As time goes on, it will get easier and you won’t have to focus quite as hard to stay on track.

 

7. Keep track of success and failure.

In step #1, you created a snapshot of your current financial situation at that moment. It does not end there. You must keep up with your logging of all of your expenses. Only then can you see your progress. Remember, any steps forward, no matter how small, should be celebrated. Not with spending of course. lol Don’t worry if your goals were too ambitious and you fell short in one month. Look for more opportunities to make up the difference the next month.

 

8. Be flexible and adjust.

If you consistently can not attain your goals, re-adjust them. It is important to stay motivated and excited about your progress. Falling too far behind may trigger you to give up. It is better to log and evaluate your failures and adjust your figures.

Conversely, if you are blowing your goals out of the water, why not move your deadline and fast track your goals. How inspiring and motivating would that be for you?

 

9. Form support groups and accountability.

Why do people go to the gym when they have all the same equipment at home? Why do people go to AA meetings? Why do people join and attend weight loss facilities? Because it is easier to stay on track and get motivated when you have other people who are reaching for the same goals and support you in your progress.

Don’t do this alone. Find a friend in real life or an online community. Finding a support group is crucial. Not only will they be there for you with tips when you are struggling, you will find it very motivating to help others too. It is amazing how helping someone else achieve there goals, keeps you on track and accountable to your own goals. Hence the whole purpose of having sponsors in AA. Find your financial sponsor/mentor and be one for someone else. It will make this whole process easier and will make you feel really good about yourself.

 

10. Practice eating your peas first and then you can have desert.

Did your mother ever say that to you or did you say that to your children? We live in a society where we are obsessed with instant gratification. Just as we teach our children to be patient and wait their turn, so must we be with our financial needs and goals. Every purchase and expense should be weighed against your future goals.

  • Does this purchase take me closer or farther away from my financial goals?
  • Is it a want or a need?
  • Can I live without it?
  • Can I make room for it in my goals and save for it?
  • Can I get it used or for free through another avenue?
  • Is there a less expensive alternative?

Gone on the days where you mindlessly pull out your plastic and buy something because you want it now. Keep your eye on the ball and the end results you want to achieve.

 

11. Organize and declutter the rest of life.

Have you noticed that not only your financial life but your physical environment is a mess too? I am SOOOO guilty of this. When I let things slide, I let everything go. A decluttered and unorganized house makes it difficult to concentrate on anything.

Here are some posts to help you get started:

I hope you join me on my journey to clean up my financial mess as well as my whole house. Stay tuned for more posts on budgeting and cleaning as it has become my main focus these days. I feel lighter and more focused and I hope I can help you feel that way to.

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5 thoughts on “11 Things To Do When Your Finances Are A Mess

  1. Wonderful advice. And so super good to hear that other people do get into “messes” and let things go. I am sorry for your situation and your loss, but nice to hear others have been through this and it can be overcome. Thanks

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