3 Ways To Help You Start Structuring Your Life When You’re Struggling

In order to achieve anything in life – whether that’s having a productive and uplifting relationship with your family, or making a small business venture successful – being able to exercise a bit of discipline, focus, and structure, is invaluable.So, if you don’t know where to start when it comes to structuring your life, here are 3 suggestions

When all is said and done, some of us just seem to be naturally hyper-organized, structured, disciplined, and systematic in our approach to life. But then there’s the rest of us – those who struggle constantly to try to introduce structure to our lives, but who nonetheless realize that without that structure, we’ll constantly fall short of our full potential.

 

In order to achieve anything in life – whether that’s having a productive and uplifting relationship with your family, or making a small business venture successful – being able to exercise a bit of discipline, focus, and structure, is invaluable.

 

So, if you don’t know where to start when it comes to structuring your life, here are a few suggestions.

 

In order to achieve anything in life – whether that’s having a productive and uplifting relationship with your family, or making a small business venture successful – being able to exercise a bit of discipline, focus, and structure, is invaluable.So, if you don’t know where to start when it comes to structuring your life, here are 3 suggestions.

3 Ways To Help You Start Structuring Your Life When You’re Struggling

 

1. Reduce complexity as much as possible, and focus on high-quality tools that yield maximum return on investment

 

Complexity essentially means the same thing as “chaos,” and when the systems that make up our lives are too inordinately complex, it’s very easy to feel as if we are completely out of control, and have no real power over our own destinies.

 

The first step to imposing structure in your life should be to reduce complexity as much as possible, and to emphasize only those things in your life that have a disproportionately positive impact.

 

For example, focus on using tools – digital or otherwise – that can get a lot done, with the least need for an increase in overall net complexity. So, for example, a tool such as Whispir that allows you to send SMS online, in addition to managing your emails, sending voice messages, and more.

 

2. Start small, and emphasize consistency in a big way

 

Structure is the kind of thing you need to build into your life from the ground up, starting small. In other words, “Rome wasn’t built in a day,” and trying to do too much, too soon is likely to just sink your motivation and momentum.

 

Start small, but be consistent, and avoid any backslides to the best of your ability.

 

A good place to start, for example, could be setting a regular “wake up time” that you abide by each day, regardless of what’s going on in your life. Something as simple as consistently making your bed in the morning also creates a structure or pattern. Introducing these sorts of routines really can have a disproportionately powerful impact over time.

 

3. Practice self-care – your energy and drive need to come from somewhere

 

It’s all very well to have a disciplined structure in mind that you plan to apply to your day. But all of that is pretty much irrelevant if you simply don’t have the energy or drive needed in order to actually make things happen “on the ground.”

 

An essential part of successfully imposing structure on your life, is to practice self-care. You need to get enough sleep, and you need to eat in a way that optimizes your energy levels, and makes you feel your best.

 

Treat yourself like someone you actually care about, and do what you can to make yourself feel good. It’ll benefit you in all sorts of different areas of your life.

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5 thoughts on “3 Ways To Help You Start Structuring Your Life When You’re Struggling

  1. So happy to have stumbled upon your site on Pinterest!! I/m 62, divorced & single 11 yrs, now disabled abruptly & no income for 1 year, exhuasted my savings to survive fractured foot then major foot surgery & back surgery 8 months ago. Broke, can’t be a nurse anymore & that & ranching with ex for 30 years as a country girl is all I know! Can;t ranch anymore either. SO, finding your blog will surely help me find monitization in something to blog about soon! Any advice or suggestions are welcome!!!
    These last few years have certainly not been golden years :((

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  2. Hi Elena –
    This is a great article! I am a very structured person in most aspects of my life but then there are a few areas that are in shambles! One of the biggest issues that I have found is the overwhelming NEED to do EVERYTHING! This takes a toll on organization and well-being for sure! I am reading The Best Yes by Lysa Terkeurst and am learning a lot at 52! I have begun to say no to many things so that I can pursue something for myself, which is blogging. I began a midlifestyle blog earlier this year and I am thrilled that I found you because you are a great mentor – love what you do!
    Thanks for the inspiration!!!
    Lisa

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    1. I truly believe that structure is why my 97 year old uncle still living alone healthily and driving. Everyday he eats, sleeps and exercises at exact same time. Boring yes but less stress on body.

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